Potential Facebook Defamation: Posting in Groups Like "Are We Dating the Same Guy"
- ajh376
- Jun 19, 2024
- 2 min read
"Are We Dating The Same Guy?" is a series of over 200 individual Facebook groups, comprising over 3.5 million members, where women share the dating profiles of men they matched with on dating networks to seek the opinion of other women who may have dated that same man in the past. The feminist groups are specific to geographical areas such as Los Angeles and New York city, and are moderated by volunteers. The group is described as "A place where woman can speak freely, openly, and honestly without the fear of harassment or intimidation."
POTENTIAL FOR LAWSUITS
While the group hopes to keep the conversations private, postings on the internet are legally seen as a public statement subject to the potential for liability. Just because the group is set to “private” does not mean your posts will not be found—and neither does deleting your posts later. Unless you are using a VPN, your posts can usually be traced back to you.
Members of this group sometimes 1) post without being anonymous, 2) take screenshots of a man's dating profile and posting it into the group, asking "any tea?", 3) post personal information of the guy (name, address, work information), 4) post stories about the man, and more.
These sorts of actions could potentially lead to a lawsuit alleging causes of action for:
Defamation
Sex-based discrimination (Unruh Civil Rights Act)
Gender Violence
Invasion of Privacy
Intentional/Negligent Infliction of Emotional Distress
Intentional/Negligent Interference with contract
Civil Conspiracy
Harassment/Doxxing
Invasion of Privacy
False Light
Attorney Albert Hughes III has been successful in defending lawsuits involving Defamation, including this specific Facebook group. If you have been threatened or served with a lawsuit alleging defamation or any of the other above causes of action, please reach out to Attorney Albert Hughes III to protect yourself from serious legal consequences.



This is a thoughtful warning about reputational risk: even in “private” Facebook groups, posts can still be treated as public statements, and deleting later may not undo the damage. The advice to think legally before sharing accusations—especially around dating—feels responsible and practical. I also appreciate the note about protecting access privacy, and I wondered how a tool like Site Unblocker might help users reach resources safely while staying within lawful boundaries.
The piece does a helpful job outlining how even “private” Facebook groups can create legal exposure through public-facing statements. I also appreciated the practical emphasis on permanence—deleting later doesn’t necessarily erase risk. That said, the discussion would be even stronger with a clearer, step-by-step explanation of what users should avoid when sharing identifying details, and how moderators can reduce defamation harm. free online proxy
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